I used to go to this bar (NOT a bar, far from it) after work with my friends. We'd go every 2nd or 3rd Friday. We worked nights so we'd show up about 4AM. There was this very femonine guy Woman seeking fucking dating dating for single parents who was usually there. I'd seen him dance with some chicks before but he was inlove with (sp?) and constantly played her music on the jukebox. One time I brought a female friend of mine with me to the bar, and this guy was there. Now, I have no interest in the guy whatsoever (not really into older, femonine black guys, nothing against them just no attraction), but he's a cool guy and we usually end up talking. I introduce him to my female friend and the FIRST thing out of her mouth was "so, where's your #$)*ing boy friend?" (she'd had a few). I was so embarassed and the guy was VERY offended. He's not, and though he has no problems with people, he didnt appreciate the assumption. I talked to him alone and explained that I'm and because I was hanging out with him, she must have assumed that he was as well. It was the first time we'd talked about our sexuality. He's just femonine, but not. I'm the opposite, not femonine but very, lol. So, I know what you're going through, I your able to smooth over the situation. Wish I could offer you some better advice. Single Vanetta, 46

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